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Parenthood has HUMBLED me."\"\/><meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\"\/><meta name=\"twitter:image\" content=\"https:\/\/img.buzzfeed.com\/buzzfeed-static\/static\/2025-02\/4\/2\/enhanced\/b25cbc1d79af\/original-3319-1738634967-2.jpg?crop=2988:1494;6,249%26downsize=1250:*\"\/><meta itemprop=\"articleSection\" content=\"US\"\/><meta name=\"next-head-count\" content=\"99\"\/><noscript data-n-css=\"\"\/><\/head><body id=\"wp_automatic_ReadabilityBody\"><\/p>\n<div id=\"__next\" data-reactroot=\"\">\n<div class=\"DestinationWrapper_buzzfeed__LdORv\"><main id=\"buzz-content\" class=\"post_main__leFIt post_buzzfeed__G3TlM embed-content\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"post_article__U0mpv post_default__QLsRf post_buzzfeed__G3TlM embed-post\">\n<div class=\"post_content__w3pdf\">\n<article>\n<div>\n<div class=\" buzz--list buzz--Parents subbuzzes-wrapper subbuzzes--buzzfeed \">\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-0 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">Je peux parler pour moi quand je dis que j’imaginais la parentalit\u00e9 semblant tr\u00e8s diff\u00e9remment de son apparence IRL. J’adore \u00eatre une maman si incroyablement, mais il y a beaucoup de choses qui sont loin de ma vision pr\u00e9-b\u00e9b\u00e9 id\u00e9alis\u00e9e. J’ai donc \u00e9t\u00e9 intrigu\u00e9 quand j’ai vu ce redditor <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/what_was_your_parenting_delusion_you_had_before\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kitkatcreature<\/a> a demand\u00e9: “Quel \u00e9tait votre <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/what_was_your_parenting_delusion_you_had_before\/\" target=\"_blank\">illusion parentale<\/a> Vous aviez avant d’avoir des enfants? “Voici la fa\u00e7on dont les gens se sont imagin\u00e9s en tant que parents … avant d’avoir leurs propres enfants.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-1 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">1 et 1<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">\u00abJe pensais que je continuerais \u00e0 vivre une vie flexible avec un b\u00e9b\u00e9. Je verrais des parents avec des jeunes qui ont pris des heures pour quitter leur maison \u00e0 cause de toute la pr\u00e9paration, des siestes de chronom\u00e9trage et des flux. Je pense \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame, wow , ne pouvait-il pas faire tout cela en dehors de la maison, comme au centre commercial ou dans la voiture? jugement et na\u00eff. “”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-2 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">2<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Que tout ce que vous aviez \u00e0 faire \u00e9tait de nourrir les enfants une vari\u00e9t\u00e9 d’aliments pour leur donner des palais sophistiqu\u00e9s. LOL … non. C’est comme un amour du macaroni au fromage et des p\u00e9pites de dino sont inn\u00e9es chez chaque enfant (am\u00e9ricain).”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-3 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">3 et 3<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je ne comprenais pas pourquoi les gens utiliseraient des laisses pour les tout-petits. Je me demanderais:” Quel genre de monstre encha\u00eenerait leur enfant en laisse! ” Non, avec un tout-petit, et je peux totalement voir pourquoi les gens pourraient avoir besoin d’une laisse dans les lieux publics.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/zfyhb7\/whats_one_thing_you_used_to_judge_parents_on\/\" target=\"_blank\">Braqueur ordinaire<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-4 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">4<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’imaginais des trafeuses de b\u00e9b\u00e9. Mon b\u00e9b\u00e9 ne se blottit pas. Il est trop occup\u00e9 \u00e0 bouger et \u00e0 regarder autour pour se blottir. Je suis \u00e9cras\u00e9. Mais aussi heureux qu’il s’int\u00e9resse \u00e0 le monde.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-5 \" data-keywords=\"cleaning\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">5<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je pensais que je ferais tellement de choses dans la maison et sur ma liste de t\u00e2ches pendant mon cong\u00e9 de maternit\u00e9 parce que les b\u00e9b\u00e9s et les enfants font beaucoup de sieste. Blagues sur moi … bien s\u00fbr, ils siesent beaucoup … mais le mien a encore besoin d’une sieste de contact 50% du temps \u00e0 pr\u00e8s de 14 mois.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-6 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">6.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je suppose que cela ne m’est jamais venu \u00e0 l’esprit avant de devenir parent que les jeunes enfants et les adolescents pourraient \u00eatre si malades mentalement chroniquement et combien il faudrait pour surveiller cela et tenter de les garder bien.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/comment\/m97d8sv\/\" target=\"_blank\">anonymousser37642<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-7 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">7<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je pensais que mon b\u00e9b\u00e9 serait heureux allong\u00e9 sur une couverture pr\u00e8s de moi pendant que je faisais quoi que ce soit. Je ne savais pas qu’elle crierait \u00e0 moins qu’elle ne soit d\u00e9tenue \u00e0 99% du temps.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-8 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">8<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai jur\u00e9 que je n’utiliserais jamais la phrase” parce que je l’ai dit. ” En tant que parent, je n’explique pas les choses \u00e0 mon enfant.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/zfyhb7\/comment\/izgex0b\/\" target=\"_blank\">Luulusoul<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-9 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai dit que je ne ferais jamais de nourriture sp\u00e9ciale pour les enfants. J’ai jug\u00e9 mes parents si durement pour \u00e7a. Maintenant, je suis un cuisinier de courte commande. Oh, eh bien.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-10 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">10<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je pensais que les soir\u00e9es cin\u00e9ma seraient amusantes. Mais mes enfants veulent regarder les m\u00eames films encore et encore, et la plupart d’entre eux ne m’\u00e9taient jamais int\u00e9ressants pour commencer.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/comment\/m97i1bo\/\" target=\"_blank\">Joyceardon<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-11 \" data-keywords=\"skincare\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">11<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">\u00abJ’ai jur\u00e9 de haut en bas, mon b\u00e9b\u00e9 ne couchait jamais avec moi … puis le PPD \/ PPA a frapp\u00e9. Les longues nuits de r\u00e9veil toutes les deux heures pour allaiter. Ensuite, il s’est r\u00e9veill\u00e9 \u00e0 chaque fois que je le d\u00e9posais dans le berceau. J’ai abandonn\u00e9 et j’ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 que j’avais besoin de sommeil. “<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-12 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">12<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">\u00abJe pensais que je proposerais comme par magie des activit\u00e9s cr\u00e9atives quotidiennes que mon enfant aimerait. Il s’av\u00e8re que mon cerveau est trop priv\u00e9 de sommeil pour penser \u00e0 autre chose qu’un voyage au parc et en lisant les m\u00eames livres encore et encore (par demande.)”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/comment\/m97hddk\/\" target=\"_blank\">Papillon<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-13 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">13<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai imagin\u00e9 faire des arts et de l’artisanat super mignons avec des peintures de doigts, etc … mais en r\u00e9alit\u00e9, mon tout-petit crie \u00e0 toutes les instructions et veut juste gicler la colle et jouer avec les ciseaux tout en griffonnant sur tout.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-14 \" data-keywords=\"cleaning\" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">14<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je pensais que ma vie serait plus ou moins la m\u00eame, mais avec un b\u00e9b\u00e9 attach\u00e9 \u00e0 moi. Cette illusion a \u00e9t\u00e9 bris\u00e9e la premi\u00e8re fois que moi, une femme de 5 pieds de haut, j’ai tent\u00e9 de laver la vaisselle pendant le port de b\u00e9b\u00e9.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/comment\/m97c8yj\/\" target=\"_blank\">meekonesfade<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-15 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">15<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai dit que le r\u00e9gime alimentaire de mon enfant ne se composerait pas de p\u00e9pites de poulet. Je me souviens que ma belle-m\u00e8re me disait qu’une frite <i>\u00c9lever Bebe;<\/i> Je ne les nourrirai pas ceux-ci. J’ai nourri ses p\u00e9pites de poulet au micro-ondes pour le d\u00e9jeuner juste aujourd’hui. “<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-16 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">16<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je pensais que je serais en mesure de faire du travail en cong\u00e9 de maternit\u00e9. Lol.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/comment\/m97d4yz\/\" target=\"_blank\">Moritani<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-17 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">17<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’imaginais que l’heure du conte serait son assise tranquille un livre de cinq pages. “<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-18 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">18<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Que mes enfants seraient cool, et que je serais un parent cool et que je pouvais accrocher, comme ‘Dinner a 8 ans dans un restaurant, ouais, je vais emmener mon enfant!” ou au festival de musique ou quoi que ce soit lol. “<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>–<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Parenting\/comments\/1ia3wvt\/comment\/m97d8k2\/\" target=\"_blank\">Nectarinejaded598<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-19 \" data-keywords=\"cleaning\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">19.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">Je pensais que j’allais enseigner \u00e0 mes enfants \u00e0 \u2728Breathed \u00bbet ils seraient \u2728 \u00e9motionnellement r\u00e9glement\u00e9s\u2728. Mais en r\u00e9alit\u00e9, je dis: \u00abD’accord !!! Sentez les fleurs, soufflez la bougie !!!!! “Et leur r\u00e9ponse est” \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 \ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd2c\ud83c\udf0b\ud83e\udd2c\ud83e\udd96\ud83e\udd85\ud83e\udd85 “<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-20 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">20<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">Et enfin … “J’\u00e9tais une illusion en gros.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-21 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">En avez-vous un \u00e0 ajouter? Quelle illusion avez-vous eu \u00e0 propos de la parentalit\u00e9 avant d’avoir un enfant et s’est rendu compte que la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 est enti\u00e8rement diff\u00e9rente? Dites-nous dans les commentaires ou dans ce <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/1Orwa0ikHUxr0iuV1cejDl_EQcJ6mgLFF-lhzb75tWxk\/preview\" target=\"_blank\">forme anonyme.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/body><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/hannahloewentheil\/first-time-parents-delusions-versus-reality\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ttn-fr-65<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les parents dissipent les versions id\u00e9alis\u00e9es de la parentalit\u00e9 apr\u00e8s les enfants Je peux parler pour moi quand je dis que j’imaginais la parentalit\u00e9 semblant tr\u00e8s diff\u00e9remment de son apparence IRL. J’adore \u00eatre une maman si incroyablement, mais il y a beaucoup de choses qui sont loin de ma vision pr\u00e9-b\u00e9b\u00e9 id\u00e9alis\u00e9e. J’ai donc \u00e9t\u00e9 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1524695,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[212015,292,245745,7957,23855,275323,3930,133,564,65,277684,50114,567,7321,7570,14397,25451,246533,60],"class_list":["post-1524694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divertissement","tag-a-feuilles-persistantes","tag-avant","tag-bestofinternet-reddit","tag-choses","tag-connaitre","tag-contenu-des-femmes","tag-davoir","tag-des","tag-enfants","tag-les","tag-lifestyle-independant","tag-parentalite","tag-parents","tag-quils","tag-reellement","tag-revelent","tag-souhaitent","tag-style-de-vie","tag-sur"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1524694","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1524694"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1524694\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1524695"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1524694"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1524694"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1524694"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}