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name=\"next-head-count\" content=\"95\"\/><noscript data-n-css=\"\"\/><\/head><body id=\"wp_automatic_ReadabilityBody\"><\/p>\n<div id=\"__next\" data-reactroot=\"\">\n<div class=\"DestinationWrapper_buzzfeed__LdORv\"><main id=\"buzz-content\" class=\"post_main__leFIt post_buzzfeed__G3TlM embed-content\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"post_article__U0mpv post_default__QLsRf post_buzzfeed__G3TlM embed-post\">\n<div class=\"post_content__w3pdf\">\n<article>\n<div>\n<div class=\" buzz--list buzz--Goodful subbuzzes-wrapper subbuzzes--buzzfeed \">\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-0 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">Toutes les relations ne sont pas cens\u00e9es durer. Mais quand r\u00e9alisez-vous que \u00ab celui-l\u00e0 \u00bb n\u2019est en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 pas cens\u00e9 exister ? Eh bien, r\u00e9dacteur <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/at_what_point_did_you_realise_she_would_never\/\" target=\"_blank\">ruxpin82<\/a> demand\u00e9 : \u00ab \u00c0 quel moment <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/at_what_point_did_you_realise_she_would_never\/\" target=\"_blank\">as-tu r\u00e9alis\u00e9<\/a> elle ne deviendra jamais votre femme\/il ne deviendra jamais votre mari ?” Voici ce que les gens disaient.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-1 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">1.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand j’ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je cherchais des excuses pour son comportement au lieu de me sentir fier de l’appeler mien.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-2 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">2.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“La veille de ma demande en mariage, elle m’a appel\u00e9 et m’a dit, en larmes : ‘J’ai besoin que tu saches que si tu me demandes en mariage, je devrai dire non.’ Ce n’\u00e9tait que le d\u00e9but de la r\u00e9alisation…”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-3 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Elle a dit : ‘Tu es une excuse path\u00e9tique pour un homme. Je te d\u00e9teste.’ Nous traversions une p\u00e9riode difficile depuis quelques mois, mais nous \u00e9tions ensemble depuis 11 ans. Elle \u00e9tait ivre et en col\u00e8re, et elle ne se souvenait pas de l’avoir dit, et nous n’en avons jamais parl\u00e9. la premi\u00e8re fois que j’ai dit ou tap\u00e9 ces mots, c’\u00e9tait il y a plus de cinq ans, mais \u00e7a fait toujours mal, j’ai annul\u00e9 quelques mois plus tard. Elle ne m’avait jamais dit quelque chose d’aussi blessant auparavant, mais. ces mots venaient de quelque part, je ne pouvais tout simplement pas. surmontez-les. \u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7l7rv\/\" target=\"_blank\">lilykitten_<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-4 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">4.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai subi une intervention m\u00e9dicale mineure et mon instinct m’a dit que l’inscrire comme contact en cas d’urgence n’\u00e9tait pas le bon choix.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-5 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">5.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai quitt\u00e9 la ville pendant deux semaines pour un voyage \u00e0 travers la nature. Elle m’a manqu\u00e9 comme un fou et j’ai pens\u00e9 \u00e0 quel point ce serait formidable de la revoir une fois de retour. D\u00e8s mon retour \u00e0 la maison, je l’appelle, et elle est la premi\u00e8re \u00e0 dit : “Oh wow, je n’ai pas du tout pens\u00e9 \u00e0 toi.” Cela m’a vraiment fait mal, mais c’\u00e9tait le signal d’alarme dont j’avais besoin pour cette terrible relation.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7jcgi\/\" target=\"_blank\">PetrusScissario<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-6 \" data-keywords=\"cleaning\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">6.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand elle m’a demand\u00e9 de lui apporter des frites maison apr\u00e8s le travail. Alors je me suis arr\u00eat\u00e9 chez McDonald’s et je lui ai achet\u00e9 deux grosses frites. Je suis entr\u00e9 avec elles. Elle m’a pris le sac, l’a ouvert, a sorti les frites et jetez-les \u00e0 la poubelle juste devant moi…”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-7 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">7.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai vu que la m\u00e8re de mon ex m’avait demand\u00e9 si j’allais recevoir une bague pour No\u00ebl, et sa r\u00e9ponse a \u00e9t\u00e9 : ‘Oh mon Dieu, non. Non. Absolument pas. Non.’ Nous \u00e9tions ensemble depuis trois ans et nous avions discut\u00e9 de tout ce qui allait se passer.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7p8fi\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jolly-Comptable-722<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-8 \" data-keywords=\"skincare\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">8.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Les petites bagarres ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 durer plus longtemps et avec moins de provocation. Et elle n’avait pas particuli\u00e8rement envie de se r\u00e9concilier par la suite. Donc en gros, quand elle a arr\u00eat\u00e9 d’essayer.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-9 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand j’ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que nous ne grandissions plus ensemble, mais s\u00e9par\u00e9ment.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-10 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">10.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand je l’ai emmen\u00e9e voir un film que je voulais voir depuis plusieurs ann\u00e9es et que la seule chose qu’elle m’a dit apr\u00e8s c’\u00e9tait : ‘Nous n’avons pas beaucoup de choses en commun.'”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7ftfs\/\" target=\"_blank\">Darren Edwards<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-11 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">11.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand j’ai eu ce sentiment au creux de l’estomac quand tu r\u00e9alises combien d’excuses tu trouves pour leurs conneries, et ensuite tu te demandes honn\u00eatement si tu pourrais t’imaginer, m\u00eame lors d’une journ\u00e9e terrible, traiter quelqu’un comme il te traite.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-12 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">12.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Nous \u00e9tions chez mes parents et nous avons eu beaucoup de neige pendant la nuit. Le matin, je suis sorti pour aider ma m\u00e8re \u00e0 pelleter. Il est rest\u00e9 assis sur notre canap\u00e9 au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone pendant pr\u00e8s de deux heures pendant que ma m\u00e8re et moi pelletions. Il avait des v\u00eatements d’hiver avec lui. Nous avions des pelles suppl\u00e9mentaires. Je lui ai demand\u00e9 s’il voulait m’aider, et il a simplement dit non. Cela ne lui d\u00e9mangeait pas du tout de nous voir ma m\u00e8re et moi travailler par la fen\u00eatre pendant qu’il jouait \u00e0 Angry Birds. . JE Ce n’\u00e9tait pas sa maison ou son all\u00e9e. Il \u00e9tait un invit\u00e9. Mais je savais qu’\u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, notre sens du soin, du devoir ou de la responsabilit\u00e9 (ou quelque chose du genre) ne correspondait pas, et nous avions une date d’expiration. “.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-13 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">13.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand un ami me disait : ‘\u00c7a fait un an que je t’entends me raconter les m\u00eames histoires sur lui, les m\u00eames coups de gueule, les m\u00eames plaintes. Je ne me lasse pas de toi, mon ami, mais ne te lasse pas de en te r\u00e9p\u00e9tant ? Me diras-tu les m\u00eames mots dans 6 mois, 6 ans, 16 ans ?'”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7p340\/\" target=\"_blank\">MoiJaimeLesCr\u00eapes<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-14 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">14.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Elle n’arr\u00eatait pas de quitter la ville. J’ai vite r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que cela s’appr\u00eatait \u00e0 partir d\u00e9finitivement.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-15 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">15.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai trouv\u00e9 un texto envoy\u00e9 \u00e0 son ami disant qu’il ne voyait aucun avenir avec moi. Nous \u00e9tions ensemble depuis quatre ans et il m’avait r\u00e9cemment convaincu de quitter mon emploi bien r\u00e9mun\u00e9r\u00e9 et de d\u00e9m\u00e9nager dans une petite ville pour poursuivre sa carri\u00e8re.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7gxjh\/\" target=\"_blank\">floride_lmt<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-16 \" data-keywords=\"skincare\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">16.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Honn\u00eatement, je pense que c’\u00e9tait juste une intuition parce que je savais que je ne voulais pas l’\u00e9pouser au fond. Je ne l’ai pas beaucoup harcel\u00e9 \u00e0 propos de me marier ou d’avoir des enfants, m\u00eame apr\u00e8s avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 ensemble pendant cinq ans. Il a montr\u00e9 non initiative de proposer quand m\u00eame en ne faisant rien qu’il avait dit qu’il devrait faire avant de se marier, mais en m\u00eame temps, pas autant que cela aurait d\u00fb, je suppose que je suis mari\u00e9 \u00e0 quelqu’un maintenant, et je ? je suis tellement contente que \u00e7a se soit pass\u00e9 comme \u00e7a je ne peux pas imaginer \u00eatre avec quelqu’un d’autre.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-17 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">17.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Nous vivions ensemble, tr\u00e8s pauvres, quand un de nos groupes pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9s est arriv\u00e9 en ville (Big Sugar). Nous en avons parl\u00e9, mais ce n’\u00e9tait pas inclus dans le budget. Le vendredi soir arrive, et il s’habille pour sortir. avec les gars. “O\u00f9 vas-tu?” \u00abEuh\u2026 Gros Sucre.\u00bb \u00ab Quoi ? Nous en avons parl\u00e9 et avons d\u00e9cid\u00e9 que nous ne pouvions pas nous permettre d’y aller ! ‘Oh, <i>nous<\/i> je ne peux pas\u2026 mais <i>je<\/i> peut.'”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p>\u2014<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h0y2qj\/comment\/lz7k39h\/\" target=\"_blank\">SnooFraises620<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-18 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">18.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand l’intimit\u00e9 a disparu. Je ne parle pas seulement de sexe (m\u00eame s’il a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 ne plus vouloir \u00e7a aussi). Je veux dire de petites touches ici et l\u00e0, un baiser et un c\u00e2lin quand il rentrait du travail. Nous avions une r\u00e8gle – embrassez-vous toujours pour une bonne nuit – et si je ne le serrais pas dans mes bras ou ne l’embrassais pas pendant la journ\u00e9e, ce baiser de bonne nuit \u00e9tait la seule affection physique que j’obtiendrais…”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-19 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">19.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Lui et moi empruntions l’autoroute Sea-to-Sky jusqu’\u00e0 Whistler. Je l’ai regard\u00e9 et j’ai eu le pressentiment qu’un jour, je ferais ce voyage avec quelqu’un d’autre. Il n’y avait aucune animosit\u00e9; rien n’allait dans la relation. ” Je savais juste \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 qu’il ne serait pas mon mari. Et ce n’est pas le cas. J’ai \u00e9pous\u00e9 un autre homme et je suis mari\u00e9e depuis pr\u00e8s de 15 ans. “<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-20 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">20.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Quand elle m’a dit qu’elle avait chang\u00e9 d’avis et qu’elle voulait avoir des enfants. C’\u00e9tait le d\u00e9but de la fin parce que nos diff\u00e9rences et \u00e0 quel point nous nous \u00e9tions \u00e9loign\u00e9s au fil des ann\u00e9es sont devenus extr\u00eamement \u00e9vidents dans les discussions et les disputes qui ont suivi. Nos visions pour l’avenir l\u2019avenir n\u2019aurait pas pu \u00eatre plus oppos\u00e9. \u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-21 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">\u00c0 quel moment avez-vous su que vous n\u2019\u00e9pouseriez jamais la personne avec qui vous entreteniez une relation\u00a0? Dites-nous dans les commentaires ou dans ceci <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSecf6zEoSeHDoF-CgmlTmFvRX1thulaSv95kbLnBucfLGbntA\/viewform\" target=\"_blank\">formulaire anonyme<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/body><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/hannahloewentheil\/people-are-sharing-the-very-moment-they-knew-their-partner\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ttn-fr-65<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les gens partagent des moments o\u00f9 ils savaient que leur partenaire n\u2019\u00e9tait pas le bon Toutes les relations ne sont pas cens\u00e9es durer. Mais quand r\u00e9alisez-vous que \u00ab celui-l\u00e0 \u00bb n\u2019est en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 pas cens\u00e9 exister ? Eh bien, r\u00e9dacteur ruxpin82 demand\u00e9 : \u00ab \u00c0 quel moment as-tu r\u00e9alis\u00e9 elle ne deviendra jamais votre femme\/il […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1438770,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[212015,486,2714,65,27061,454,147,696,249,4418,5937,1767,132,92017],"class_list":["post-1438769","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divertissement","tag-a-feuilles-persistantes","tag-gens","tag-ils","tag-les","tag-letait","tag-leur","tag-meme","tag-moment","tag-ont","tag-ou","tag-partagent","tag-partenaire","tag-pas","tag-quotceluiquot"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1438769","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1438769"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1438769\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1438770"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1438769"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1438769"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1438769"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}