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Sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux et dans la culture pop, les gens critiquent les personnalit\u00e9s publiques pour leur vieillissement, en se concentrant sur les effets superficiels du vieillissement. Mais qu\u2019en est-il des transformations plus profondes qui accompagnent l\u2019\u00e2ge ?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-1 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">R\u00e9cemment, un utilisateur de Reddit <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/boroq\/\" target=\"_blank\">boroq<\/a> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/what_used_to_piss_you_off_that_now_seems_like\/\" target=\"_blank\">demand\u00e9<\/a> le <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/\" target=\"_blank\">r\/demanderaux gens<\/a> communaut\u00e9, “Qu’est-ce qui vous \u00e9nervait avant et qui semble maintenant \u00eatre de l’\u00e9nergie gaspill\u00e9e\u00a0?” Leurs r\u00e9ponses concernant l\u2019abandon des petites choses m\u2019ont vraiment donn\u00e9 envie de vieillir\u00a0:<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-2 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">1.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">\u00ab Il y a longtemps, un ami m’a dit : ‘Ce n’est pas ton affaire de savoir ce que les autres pensent de toi.’ C\u2019\u00e9tait comme si une ampoule s\u2019\u00e9tait \u00e9teinte dans ma t\u00eate. \u00c0 partir de ce moment-l\u00e0, les choses allaient mieux. C\u2019est une le\u00e7on que j\u2019ai apprise plus tard dans la vie, mais une le\u00e7on n\u00e9anmoins apprise. \u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-3 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">2.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Maintenant que je suis plus \u00e2g\u00e9, je d\u00e9cide toujours de ma r\u00e9ponse selon la r\u00e8gle des 7 : est-ce que cela aura de l’importance dans 7 secondes, 7 minutes, 7 heures, 7 jours, 7 semaines ou 7 ans ? Si cela n’a pas d’importance dans 7 semaines ou 7 ans, peu importe ! \u00c7a permet de relativiser.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqpyu3h\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/individu-army811<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-4 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Se mettre en col\u00e8re contre tout ce qui a trait au sport. Qu’il s’agisse d’une \u00e9quipe qui bouge ou d’une \u00e9quipe favorite qui perd \u00e0 cause d’une mauvaise d\u00e9cision, tout et n’importe quoi. Cela fait plus de 20 ans que je n’ai pas regard\u00e9 autre chose de plus long qu’un clip YouTube d’un \u00e9v\u00e9nement sportif. \u00e9v\u00e9nement, et il n’y a absolument rien qui m’importe, m\u00eame deux de mes \u00e9quipes locales d\u00e9m\u00e9nagent \u00e0 Las Vegas ;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-5 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">4.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’ai entendu un dicton il y a des ann\u00e9es. Il disait quelque chose comme : ‘\u00c0 20 ans, vous vous souciez de ce que tout le monde pense. \u00c0 40 ans, vous vous en foutez de ce que tout le monde pense de vous. \u00c0 60 ans, la vraie sagesse est lorsque vous r\u00e9alisez personne n’a jamais pens\u00e9 \u00e0 toi en premier lieu.'”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqql424\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/flaming0-1<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-6 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">5.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Circulation. Je n’ai jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 un passionn\u00e9 de la route, mais j’\u00e9tais tellement tendu et en col\u00e8re que je pensais que j’\u00e9tais dans l’Indy 500. Maintenant, je me d\u00e9tends, je suis le courant, je laisse une large place aux conducteurs dangereux et je ne transpire pas. quand les gens font des erreurs, cela rend la conduite tr\u00e8s agr\u00e9able. \u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-7 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">6.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“J’avais l’habitude de me disputer et de me battre avec les gens \u00e0 propos de MA VIE. Maintenant, je leur dis juste de se faire foutre.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqpajpd\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/mika00004<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-8 \" data-keywords=\"cleaning\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">7.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Mes anniversaires. Avant, je me souciais vraiment des anniversaires et de mes projets pour mon anniversaire, et surtout de la fa\u00e7on dont nous le c\u00e9l\u00e9brions en famille, et j’\u00e9tais tr\u00e8s \u00e9nerv\u00e9 lorsque les plans \u00e9chouaient in\u00e9vitablement. Il y a eu tellement de d\u00e9ceptions que je J’ai en quelque sorte renonc\u00e9 mentalement \u00e0 essayer de le c\u00e9l\u00e9brer, me contentant de prendre soin de moi ce jour-l\u00e0 et laissant cela suffire.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-9 \" data-keywords=\"fast fashion\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">8.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je ne rentre pas dans mon jean. J’\u00e9tais tellement contrari\u00e9 que je me retrouvais \u00e0 suivre un r\u00e9gime intensif ou m\u00eame \u00e0 je\u00fbner juste pour le fermer. Oubliez tout \u00e7a. Donnez-moi un jean extensible pour que je puisse gagner et perdre les m\u00eames sept livres. et je m’en fiche.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-10 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Des disputes en ligne. En particulier des trucs Usenet \u00e0 l’\u00e9poque. Inutile.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqp8vxz\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/sweattytubesock<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-11 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">10.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Des coll\u00e8gues inutiles. J’ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que certaines personnes profiteraient de leur entreprise ou feraient le strict minimum. Avec le recul, je r\u00e9alise maintenant que c’est l\u00e0 qu’ils en \u00e9taient dans la vie, et qu’ils ne se souciaient pas de leur propre carri\u00e8re comme moi. laissez tomber, je pourrais me concentrer sur mon travail. Et dans certains cas, ils \u00e9taient intelligents, sachant que le travail qu’ils devaient faire \u00e9tait plut\u00f4t inutile. Une grande partie du \u00ab travail \u00bb que nous faisons n’est pas productive, m\u00eame s’il semble important. le temps.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-12 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">11.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">\u00ab \u00c0 peu pr\u00e8s tout ce qui me mettait en col\u00e8re semble maintenant \u00eatre de l’\u00e9nergie gaspill\u00e9e. Surtout les choses sur lesquelles je n’ai aucun contr\u00f4le.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-13 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">12.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Si vous ne vous investissez pas \u00e0 100\u00a0% dans votre travail (comme je l’ai fait parce que j’en ai fait mon identit\u00e9), cela ne veut pas dire que vous \u00eates paresseux. Cela peut signifier que vous donnez la priorit\u00e9 \u00e0 votre bien-\u00eatre ou que vous donnez la priorit\u00e9 \u00e0 un retour \u00e0 la maison \u00e0 temps. d\u00eener avec votre enfant, etc. Dans mes jeunes ann\u00e9es, j’idol\u00e2trais ce patron\/PDG qui se lan\u00e7ait dans son travail, c’est comme \u00e7a qu’on arrive au sommet, pensais-je. Maintenant, apr\u00e8s avoir vu toutes les autres belles choses de la vie. a \u00e0 offrir en dehors du travail, je les plains un peu.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqqbrto\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/sogopro<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-14 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">13.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Coll\u00e8gues\/patrons. J’en ai parl\u00e9 pendant mes heures non travaill\u00e9es. Maintenant \u00e0 la retraite, je sais que c’\u00e9tait une \u00e9norme perte de temps et d’\u00e9nergie, et pour la plupart, je ne me souviens m\u00eame pas du nom de quelqu’un ni de la raison pour laquelle je s’en souciait.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqpok2p\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/plsmock<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-15 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">14.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Les \u00e9cureuils ! Je ne sais pas, j’avais une haine passionn\u00e9e pour eux… je ne sais pas pourquoi. J’appr\u00e9cie un peu les petits gars maintenant.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-16 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">15.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Les gens en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral. Parfois, les gens sont nuls, cela a toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 le cas et cela le sera toujours. J’essaie de me concentrer sur ceux qui ne le font pas.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqp5qbl\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/doodlebug510<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-17 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">16.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“La nutrition. Tout le monde disait de manger plus de ceci et moins de cela ! Maintenant, tout le monde dit le contraire. Tellement agit\u00e9 que j’ai arr\u00eat\u00e9 d’y pr\u00eater attention.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-18 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">17.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Presque tout sur quoi je n’ai aucun contr\u00f4le. Surtout la politique et les sujets br\u00fblants. Je ne suis pas en charge du sport f\u00e9minin, et mes amies non plus, alors pourquoi discutons-nous pour savoir qui peut jouer et qui ne peut pas le faire ?”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqpv5o1\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/snart-fiffer<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-19 \" data-keywords=\"cleaning\" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">18.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Avant, les miettes dans le pot \u00e0 beurre me faisaient me plaindre \u00e0 haute voix. Maintenant, je suis juste ennuy\u00e9 et je dis ‘peu importe’.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-20 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">19.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Je n’ai plus l’\u00e9tat par d\u00e9faut de” press\u00e9 “, donc je m’en fiche si quelqu’un me pr\u00e9c\u00e8de dans la file d’attente ou fait la m\u00eame chose dans la circulation. Je m’en fiche.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqqabut\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/petdance<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-21 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">20.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Les gens narcissiques. Pourquoi gaspiller l’\u00e9nergie ? ILS NE VONT PAS CHANGER.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-22 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">21.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“La principale question que je me pose est la suivante\u00a0: ‘Est-ce que quelqu’un en mourra ?’ Et si la r\u00e9ponse est non, ce n’est pas grave. La vie continuera. Vous voyez, la vie n’est qu’une s\u00e9rie d’\u00e9v\u00e9nements et d’obstacles que nous devons surmonter pour la plupart\u2026 mais si vous le souhaitez. Pour avoir des moments agr\u00e9ables, il faut surmonter les moments merdiques. Donc, finalement, vous arr\u00eatez de vous \u00e9nerver et vous vous en sortez pour pouvoir profiter des moments agr\u00e9ables plus t\u00f4t et plus souvent.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqr7072\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/norseglas<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-23 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">22.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Avant, j’\u00e9tais d\u00e9rang\u00e9 par des gens qui n’\u00e9taient pas d’accord avec moi. Puis j’ai grandi et j’ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je n’avais pas toujours raison. Mais 99 % du temps, j’ai raison. Je dis juste.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lqsu78x\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/moist-share7674<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-image subbuzz-index-24 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-image\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">23.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Comportement passif-agressif. Maintenant que je sais mieux, j’ai imm\u00e9diatement exclu de ma vie les gens comme \u00e7a.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"subbuzz__media\">\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-25 \" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"subbuzz__number\">24.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">“Les gens ne r\u00e9pondent pas \u00e0 mes attentes ou ne tiennent pas parole. Probablement plein d’autres choses, mais maintenant \u00e0 49 ans, je m’en fous ! C’est g\u00e9nial.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskOldPeople\/comments\/1fxtxcn\/comment\/lr0r5ha\/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button\" target=\"_blank\">\u2014u\/[deleted]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"js-subbuzz-wrapper\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"subbuzz buzz-width--standard__subbuzz buzz-type--list__subbuzz subbuzz-text subbuzz-index-26 \" data-keywords=\"skincare\" data-module=\"subbuzz-text\">\n<h2 class=\"subbuzz__header subbuzz__header--standard subbuzz__title \">\n<p> <span class=\"js-subbuzz__title-text\">Avez-vous remarqu\u00e9 que les choses vous irritent moins \u00e0 mesure que vous vieillissez\u00a0? Qu’est-ce qui vous d\u00e9rangeait et qui ne vous met plus en phase ? Faites-le-nous savoir dans les commentaires ou via <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSefWmQnTf2is6ad66zC7CuIvzsrp_rFtZRtJf11SYwQSzdIWw\/viewform?usp=sf_link\" target=\"_blank\">ce formulaire<\/a> si vous pr\u00e9f\u00e9rez rester anonyme.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/body><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/megsullivan\/older-adults-stop-getting-angry-age\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ttn-fr-65<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>24 choses que les gens ont appris \u00e0 abandonner en vieillissant On parle beaucoup en ligne de \u00ab\u00a0vieillir avec gr\u00e2ce\u00a0\u00bb, mais rares sont ceux qui semblent m\u00e9diter sur ce que cela signifie. en fait moyens. Sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux et dans la culture pop, les gens critiquent les personnalit\u00e9s publiques pour leur vieillissement, en se […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1390174,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[212015,277,1451,507,21236,2090,133,245,29049,486,828,212113,364,7321,261514,85783,9120,4729,28470,180,476],"class_list":["post-1390173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divertissement","tag-a-feuilles-persistantes","tag-ans","tag-atteignent","tag-aux","tag-cessent","tag-completement","tag-des","tag-deux","tag-faisaient","tag-gens","tag-jusqua","tag-le-meilleur-dinternet-reddit","tag-qui","tag-quils","tag-quotagitationquot","tag-realites","tag-renverse","tag-rouge","tag-soucier","tag-vie","tag-voir"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1390173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1390173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1390173\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1390174"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1390173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1390173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1390173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}