{"id":588711,"date":"2023-01-23T16:19:28","date_gmt":"2023-01-23T16:19:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/no-se-trata-de-disfrutar-tranquilamente-de-la-crianza-sino-de-hundirse-o-bombear-por-eso-espero-nietos\/"},"modified":"2023-01-23T16:19:29","modified_gmt":"2023-01-23T16:19:29","slug":"no-se-trata-de-disfrutar-tranquilamente-de-la-crianza-sino-de-hundirse-o-bombear-por-eso-espero-nietos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/no-se-trata-de-disfrutar-tranquilamente-de-la-crianza-sino-de-hundirse-o-bombear-por-eso-espero-nietos\/","title":{"rendered":"No se trata de disfrutar tranquilamente de la crianza, sino de hundirse o bombear.  Por eso espero nietos"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div id=\"\">\n<section class=\"artstyle__production artstyle__production--hide-author fu--hide-author artstyle__production--hide-time fu--hide-time artstyle__production--margin-bottom-s-s fu--margin-bottom-s-s artstyle__production--with-authors\" data-element-id=\"article-element-authors\"><span class=\"artstyle__production__authors\">Silvia Whiteman<\/span><time class=\"artstyle__production__datetime\" datetime=\"23 januari 2023\"><span class=\"artstyle__production__date\">23 de enero de 2023<\/span><span class=\"artstyle__production__time\">13:07<\/span><\/time><span class=\"artstyle__production-decoration\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"184\" height=\"11\" viewbox=\"0 0 184 11\" fill=\"none\"><mask id=\"path-1-inside-1\" fill=\"white\"><path fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M86.9133 5.08154L81.8318 0L76.7745 5.05725H0V5.65725H76.7288L81.8318 10.7603L86.9133 5.67871L91.9949 10.7603L96.9948 5.76038L101.995 10.7603L107.098 5.65725H184V5.05725H107.052L101.995 0L96.9948 4.99988L91.9949 0L86.9133 5.08154Z\"\/><\/mask><path fill-rule=\"evenodd\" clip-rule=\"evenodd\" d=\"M86.9133 5.08154L81.8318 0L76.7745 5.05725H0V5.65725H76.7288L81.8318 10.7603L86.9133 5.67871L91.9949 10.7603L96.9948 5.76038L101.995 10.7603L107.098 5.65725H184V5.05725H107.052L101.995 0L96.9948 4.99988L91.9949 0L86.9133 5.08154Z\" fill=\"white\"\/><path d=\"M81.8318 0L82.2122 -0.380432L81.8318 -0.760863L81.4514 -0.380432L81.8318 0ZM86.9133 5.08154L86.5329 5.46197L86.9133 5.84241L87.2938 5.46197L86.9133 5.08154ZM76.7745 5.05725V5.59526H76.9974L77.155 5.43768L76.7745 5.05725ZM0 5.05725V4.51924H-0.538012V5.05725H0ZM0 5.65725H-0.538012V6.19526H0V5.65725ZM76.7288 5.65725L77.1092 5.27682L76.9516 5.11924H76.7288V5.65725ZM81.8318 10.7603L81.4514 11.1407L81.8318 11.5211L82.2122 11.1407L81.8318 10.7603ZM86.9133 5.67871L87.2938 5.29828L86.9133 4.91785L86.5329 5.29828L86.9133 5.67871ZM91.9949 10.7603L91.6144 11.1407L91.9949 11.5211L92.3753 11.1407L91.9949 10.7603ZM96.9948 5.76038L97.3752 5.37995L96.9948 4.99951L96.6143 5.37995L96.9948 5.76038ZM101.995 10.7603L101.614 11.1407L101.995 11.5211L102.375 11.1407L101.995 10.7603ZM107.098 5.65725V5.11924H106.875L106.717 5.27682L107.098 5.65725ZM184 5.65725V6.19526H184.538V5.65725H184ZM184 5.05725H184.538V4.51924H184V5.05725ZM107.052 5.05725L106.671 5.43768L106.829 5.59526H107.052V5.05725ZM101.995 0L102.375 -0.380432L101.995 -0.760863L101.614 -0.380432L101.995 0ZM96.9948 4.99988L96.6143 5.38031L96.9948 5.76074L97.3752 5.38031L96.9948 4.99988ZM91.9949 0L92.3753 -0.380432L91.9949 -0.760863L91.6144 -0.380432L91.9949 0ZM81.4514 0.380432L86.5329 5.46197L87.2938 4.70111L82.2122 -0.380432L81.4514 0.380432ZM77.155 5.43768L82.2122 0.380432L81.4514 -0.380432L76.3941 4.67682L77.155 5.43768ZM76.7745 4.51924H0V5.59526H76.7745V4.51924ZM-0.538012 5.05725V5.65725H0.538012V5.05725H-0.538012ZM0 6.19526H76.7288V5.11924H0V6.19526ZM82.2122 10.3798L77.1092 5.27682L76.3484 6.03768L81.4514 11.1407L82.2122 10.3798ZM86.5329 5.29828L81.4514 10.3798L82.2122 11.1407L87.2938 6.05914L86.5329 5.29828ZM92.3753 10.3798L87.2938 5.29828L86.5329 6.05914L91.6144 11.1407L92.3753 10.3798ZM96.6143 5.37995L91.6144 10.3798L92.3753 11.1407L97.3752 6.14081L96.6143 5.37995ZM102.375 10.3798L97.3752 5.37995L96.6143 6.14081L101.614 11.1407L102.375 10.3798ZM106.717 5.27682L101.614 10.3798L102.375 11.1407L107.478 6.03768L106.717 5.27682ZM107.098 6.19526H184V5.11924H107.098V6.19526ZM184.538 5.65725V5.05725H183.462V5.65725H184.538ZM184 4.51924H107.052V5.59526H184V4.51924ZM101.614 0.380432L106.671 5.43768L107.432 4.67682L102.375 -0.380432L101.614 0.380432ZM97.3752 5.38031L102.375 0.380432L101.614 -0.380432L96.6143 4.61945L97.3752 5.38031ZM91.6144 0.380432L96.6143 5.38031L97.3752 4.61945L92.3753 -0.380432L91.6144 0.380432ZM87.2938 5.46197L92.3753 0.380432L91.6144 -0.380432L86.5329 4.70111L87.2938 5.46197Z\" fill=\"black\" mask=\"url(#path-1-inside-1)\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/section>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph artstyle__paragraph--drop-cap fu--drop-cap artstyle__paragraph--drop-cap-h fu--drop-cap-h\" data-element-id=\"9a0fe992-ac86-446f-989a-aafd273738ef\">\n<p>      Estaba ocupado en la peque\u00f1a oficina de correos donde quer\u00eda enviar un paquete.  Frente a m\u00ed estaba una madre con un hijo de unos 5 a\u00f1os, rizos negros.  Chaqueta roja.  La madre estaba ocupada con su tel\u00e9fono, el ni\u00f1o mir\u00f3 a su alrededor y dijo en voz alta lo que vio.  un folleto  Otro folleto.  Gotas.\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"4f44d7d3-9655-4e99-9f36-ea6a3a8d92c4\">\n<p>      &#8216;\u00bfY eso qu\u00e9 es, mam\u00e1?  \u00bfMam\u00e1?  Mami, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es eso?  Se\u00f1al\u00f3 una pila de sobres y tir\u00f3 de la manga de su madre.  Ella levant\u00f3 la vista de su tel\u00e9fono.  &#8220;\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa, cari\u00f1o?&#8221;, pregunt\u00f3 ella.  El chico se\u00f1al\u00f3.  &#8220;Oh, esos son sobres&#8221;, dijo.  Volvi\u00f3 a mirar su pantalla.  &#8220;Anfulloppe&#8230;&#8221; dijo el ni\u00f1o.  Prob\u00f3 la palabra en su lengua.\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"19cf9807-c807-41e9-9e9d-2bfa56d33e2f\">\n<p>      &#8220;\u00bfPara qu\u00e9 es eso, anfulloppe?&#8221;, pregunt\u00f3.  &#8216;\u00bfMam\u00e1?&#8217;  No es un sjoe, pero persever\u00f3.  &#8216;\u00a1Mam\u00e1!&#8217;  grit\u00f3.  &#8216;\u00a1\u00bfPara qu\u00e9 es eso?!&#8217;  Ella levant\u00f3 la vista, molesta como si alguien hubiera desenchufado su ba\u00f1o caliente, pero r\u00e1pidamente corrigi\u00f3 su expresi\u00f3n a una sonrisa cansada.  &#8220;Eso es para una carta&#8221;, dijo.  &#8220;Puedes enviar una carta all\u00ed&#8221;.\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"6ff76bfc-9541-49e3-9f1e-a6459926a894\">\n<p>      El ni\u00f1o mastic\u00f3 esta informaci\u00f3n en silencio.  \u00bfUna carta?  \u00bfEnviar?, lo vi pensando.  Despu\u00e9s de medio minuto prosigui\u00f3: &#8216;Mam\u00e1, \u00bfqu\u00e9 tipo de carta?  \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?  \u00bfMam\u00e1?&#8217;  La mujer no volvi\u00f3 a levantar la vista.  \u00a1Dios todopoderoso, perra!  Me arrodill\u00e9, le sonre\u00ed al ni\u00f1o y comenc\u00e9 una presentaci\u00f3n sobre nuestro sistema postal.  &#8220;Bueno, mira&#8221;, le dije.  &#8220;Si es el cumplea\u00f1os de tu abuela, por ejemplo, entonces&#8230;&#8221;\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"d55e2c20-7851-43e8-ae7b-6588bb7795b3\">\n<p>      Mientras balbuceaba, pens\u00e9 con verg\u00fcenza en la carta que mi hijo ten\u00eda que escribirle a su abuela de cumplea\u00f1os en ese momento.  Ya era un adolescente en ese momento, pero era su primera carta.  Se convirti\u00f3 en una debacle.  El fen\u00f3meno del &#8216;saludo&#8217; le era desconocido, no sab\u00eda d\u00f3nde deb\u00eda ir el sello, ni c\u00f3mo buscar un c\u00f3digo postal ni d\u00f3nde estaba el buz\u00f3n.  Cuando le hube explicado esto \u00faltimo &#8211; rega\u00f1ando y despotricando &#8211; (a la vuelta de la esquina) volvi\u00f3 con las manos vac\u00edas;  ese autob\u00fas result\u00f3 ser cancelado.\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"46ef0479-ae8c-4f08-a56c-15bfee223cd0\">\n<p>      Aparentemente yo tambi\u00e9n hab\u00eda descuidado groseramente mis deberes maternales.  &#8220;La juventud se desperdicia en los j\u00f3venes&#8221;, dijo George Shaw, pero tambi\u00e9n conozco otra: los ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os se desperdician en los padres j\u00f3venes.  No se trata de una crianza tranquila y placentera, sino de un bombeo de p\u00e1nico o de un ahogamiento.  Por eso estoy deseando tener nietos, pero s\u00ed, no puedes hacerlos t\u00fa mismo.\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"23d5bddd-1681-4a36-9fb7-517b5e3288a8\">\n<p>      \u00bfVes?, le dije al chico.  &#8220;\u00a1Y entonces la abuela recibir\u00e1 tu carta y estar\u00e1 muy feliz!&#8221;  Me mir\u00f3 fr\u00edamente y sacudi\u00f3 la cabeza.  &#8220;No&#8221;, dijo.  Y de nuevo, con firmeza: &#8220;No, no&#8221;.\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"artstyle__paragraph \" data-element-id=\"4f8cc25c-ed62-408e-bada-1a42081dca76\">\n<p>      Bueno, tambi\u00e9n puedes aplicar, por supuesto.\n    <\/p>\n<aside class=\"artstyle__editorial-tips \" data-element-id=\"article-element-editorialtips\">\n<h3 class=\"editorial-tips__title\">Leer tambi\u00e9n<\/h3>\n<\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.volkskrant.nl\/columns-opinie\/het-is-geen-kalmpjes-genietend-opvoeden-maar-pompen-of-verzuipen-daarom-verheug-ik-me-op-kleinkinderen~b6f6c3eb\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ttn-es-23<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Silvia Whiteman23 de enero de 202313:07 Estaba ocupado en la peque\u00f1a oficina de correos donde quer\u00eda enviar un<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":184986,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[73173,35280,8903,1075,8000,1097,5420,231,12099,28353,6460],"class_list":["post-588711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cultura","tag-bombear","tag-crianza","tag-disfrutar","tag-eso","tag-espero","tag-hundirse","tag-nietos","tag-por","tag-sino","tag-tranquilamente","tag-trata"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/588711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=588711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/588711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/184986"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=588711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=588711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teknomers.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=588711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}