– Maybe it’s me who has become a red flag, says Nikoline Edvardsen. The girl gang laughs. – We are just wandering red flags, smiles Martine Bram. They sit in a corner at UiA, each with a book. In between reading, the conversation turns to dating. MANY TERMS: Breadcrumbing, ick, dealbreaker and red flags. Nikoline Edvardsen, Martine Bram and Sunniva Vanglo think there are many terms to keep track of. Photo: Helene Myre / news – Within dating, there have been many expressions and recipes for things that have always been, Bram believes. – But now you put it into words in a different way, Edvardsen continues and says: – Beige flag. It is a new term for example. Have you heard about it? CONCEPTS: Nikoline Edvardsen (19) wonders if we have heard of the term beige flag? Photo: Helene Myre / news – Let’s say the person you’re dating does synchronized swimming. You might think it’s a bit of a spry activity, but you like him, and he’s a really nice guy. So then it’s not a dealbreaker or a red flag. It’s a beige flag, according to her. Does your partner have beige flags? Yes many😜 A couple🤷🏾🤷🏼♂️ No none😎 Show result Are you curious about more dating terms? Take the quiz at the bottom of the article and see if you follow along. – Be open Another term that is trending on TikTok is praise. Roster is originally an English word that is used in connection with rosters and participant lists in the world of work and sport. Now the term has also found a place in dating. This means that you have a list of people you are attracted to, who you talk to, date, or sleep with. On TikTok, men share who they have on their roster, and women encourage other women to get one. – Society has become such that it should be so easy. You have to jump here and there without thinking about feelings, says Martine Bram. ROSTER: Martine Bram (21) believes many are afraid of getting hurt, so they would like to have a backup. Photo: Helene Myre / news She says it makes sense that people think less about feelings when dating now, but believes that dating culture is going in the wrong direction. – Many are so afraid of getting hurt. Then it is easier to have people in backup, because then they have somewhere to go. Sunniva Vanglo believes that people must be allowed to explore as they wish. IMPORTANT: Sunniva Vanglo (21) believes it is important that people communicate when dating. Photo: Helene Myre / news – You cannot meet a person for the first time and think that now it is the two of us, without being able to look at others. But then it is important to communicate, she says. – Be open from the start about what you want, adds Bram. – Have you had rosters? – Not consciously, but certainly unconsciously, says Vanglo. So, have you now figured out what a “beige flag” is? Take our quiz and find out if you keep up with today’s dating world. Don’t you? Relax. There are word explanations in each answer.
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